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Forge In Omaha

Forge is a movement that began in January 2024. It is growing rapidly. Now, in 2026 we believe the Holy Spirit is leading us to expand our mission to Omaha. Let’s tell you a little bit about the Omaha chapter and the Forge Movement.

Jeb Vavak

Omaha City Director

Forge is proud to introduce Jeb Vavak as the Director of Forge Omaha. A Nebraska native, a husband and father, with over seven years working in small group and men’s ministry leadership, he is a natural fit to lead Forge’s expansion to Omaha. What drew Jeb to the mission of Forge is the opportunity for generational impact: when a father is transformed, it is not just one man but his entire family, his entire bloodline, that is transformed, and that one changed life creates a ripple effect that has the power to impact his family tree for generations.

Jeb’s life was radically altered when he made the decision to put Christ at the center of his life during his senior year at the University of Nebraska-Lincoln. After college he spent two years serving with FOCUS (Fellowship of Catholic University Students) before moving back to Nebraska. His professional background spans many aspects of Catholic ministry including leadership, fundraising, relational ministry, and event planning.

The most important role in Jeb’s life is his vocation as a husband and father. Jeb is married to his wife Monica and together they have two children. They reside in Omaha and are parishioners at St. Wenceslaus parish.

The Forge Movement

What is Forge?

At FORGE, we fight for the family. Our fight does not involve a physical war. Instead, FORGE fights for the minds and the hearts of men. Nevertheless, just like physical warfare, there is one principle of warfare that has become utterly clear: men who fight alone lose. Men who fight together have a chance of winning. Our enemy’s strategy is to isolate, fragment, and destroy. Our strategy is to unite, build virtue, and grow a movement. Welcome to the movement. 

FORGE began in response to a problem, a problem that we understand as one of the most lethal threats of our age: the corrosion of family-based Christian society in the face of an anti-family, anti-Christian, sexually confused, and oftentimes pagan culture. As we fight for the family, we recognize the uniquely leveraged role of men. Thus, taking men as its central, strategic focus, FORGE champions the flourishing of the family, and, through the beauty of that flourishing, evangelizes the world. 

Why the family? And why men? Let’s start with the family. Pope Saint John Paul II prophetically said that “As the family goes, so goes the nation, and so goes the whole world in which we live.” (Homily in Perth, Australia – 1986) At FORGE, we are convinced that the state of the family stands as a pivotal hinge on which the whole of society turns. Thus, one of the best ways to improve the state of the entire society (and the Church) is to improve the state of the family.

“Why men?” For decades leading up to the founding of FORGE, groups like the National Fatherhood Initiative have decried the rise in American fatherlessness. The absence of a father positively correlates with poverty, prison, drug use, joblessness, educational failure, obesity, teen pregnancy, and much more (www.fatherhood.org). Fatherlessness is bad in society, but it’s worse for the Church. The gravity of the Church’s man problem is highlighted by two interrelated phenomena. First, Churches have been drained of men. In 2016, PEW Research reported that “An average American congregation is roughly 61% female and 39% male,” and that statistic is substantially higher for almost all religious programming including small groups, service work, and religious education. Second, outwardly religious fathers positively correlate with faith transmission; that is, by the odds, kids are more likely to follow the faith patterns of their father than their mother. 

The absence of an involved father brings about a negative spiral (both naturally and spiritually), but of course, the inverse is also true. A more involved father correlates with educational, professional, and psychological flourishing. And study after study has shown that children of faith-filled fathers are far more likely to become faith-filled adults. For these reasons, FORGE has made a strategic decision to emphasize men, all men, both single and married. We fight for single men because they are powerful allies, play a unique role in their communities, and might be exceptional fathers in the future. We fight for married men as they stand at the very center of the FORGE movement, a movement that seeks to heal the family through the father. 

 

How Does It Work? 

The strategy of a local FORGE chapter is to create a “net”; that is, a network of men that “catches” men for the gospel and supports those who have already received the gospel. The most fundamental unit of the Forge network is a small group. That said, Forge also actively encourages intergenerational mentorship; that is, mentorship of men in a younger generation by men in older generations. In this way, relationships are at the core of FORGE’s missional strategy. 

The expressed goal of a local Forge network is to build men, marriages, and families who are “TAO”; that is, Thriving, Apostolic, and Orthodox. By thriving, Forge refers to families who flourish in their natural human capacities. First and foremost, FORGE seeks to build flourishing human beings. By apostolic, Forge refers to families who love their Catholic faith and are actively involved with the evangelization of their local community. By orthodox, Forge refers to families who are obedient to the Church’s teachings without any exceptions. To be clear, Forge men are convicted that the Catholic Church is more than a fallible human institution. Though many Catholics have committed horrific sins, the teaching authority of the Church does not err. When speaking officially on matters of faith or morals, the Church’s teaching authority is inspired by the Holy Spirit, and the Holy Spirit does not make mistakes. In the words of GK Chesterton, the teaching authority of the Catholic Church is a “truth-telling thing.” The “TAO” is the master metric through which FORGE measures everything that it does.

Now, you might ask, what about everything else that FORGE does? What about FORGE courses, men’s nights, retreats, and conferences? Once again, everything that FORGE does exists to advance the FORGE movement. At FORGE, we have found that large events are powerful tools to build identity, provide critical formation, cultivate momentum, and inspire new members. Further, for those who have attended FORGE events, you’ll notice that event programming always includes ample space for organic social interaction. In this way, every large FORGE event exists to serve what might be called “small” interpersonal relationships. The large serves the small. As for curriculum and content, they also exist for the movement. We have found that high-quality content is essential to educate and empower those affiliated with the movement. For this reason, FORGE puts a very high premium on professional-grade content and large-group experiences, but the defining feature of such experiences is their ability to contribute to the FORGE movement.

How do I get involved?

Information on upcoming Events in Omaha is coming soon!

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John Grabowski, Ph.D.

Father, Grandfather, Papal Theologian

John Grabowski, Ph.D. has taught moral theology on the faculty of the Catholic University of America since 1991. He has served multiple terms as a theological advisor for the U.S.C.C.B., as an expert at the 2015 Synod on Family, and on the Pontifical Council for the family from 2009-2015 with his wife Claire. He has written or coauthored eight books and many scholarly and popular articles in the areas of moral theology, marriage, sexuality, theological anthropology, and bioethics. John serves on FORGE's Board of Directors and contributes to FORGE curriculum. He and Claire have 5 children and 11 grandchildren.

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